July 22 2 008
I have to Learn More Of Me
I suppose that it turns out to be easy to criticize free what the others do … and it is difficult to us to accept more our errors or to scandalize us of ourselves. I am the first one that I give aforesaid to myself, “I do not learn from my error to the foreign negative criticism”, uffff to think about the others that easy it is, and that difficult it is to put itself in its place, to manage to understand the reasons for which they move such actions, all so you bid as incomprehensible.
Perhaps I will have to look more at the pocket of my soul and embrace the reasons that everyone has to act. To learn to be able to be a joust with what I do not understand and to take up office, that perhaps should never understand it. I believe that I have to be tolerant and opened to the opinions although he does not share them, but to understand them, since I can understand but not share
Perhaps ….seria more just if it was capable of assimilating that everyone has its reasons, for much unhappened to me see, that each one has a way of working in the life.
It would be more loving if he could lead my deductions to the good one to do. Perhaps she would live calmer without the worry of feeling aforesaid in any conversation, many of foreign them, Acquiring more ripeness and other better being not to try at the cost of, but to improve with my emotions, and my intentions.
It is easy to make ridiculous there is someone, only an easy and weak detainee is necessary to look for engrandecerse before the rest, (good sadly before one himself) that sad is to violate this reason, “the foreign weakness”. Although it is an innate common gift, that we have many, and only the humble ones recognize it after its innermost thoughts.
I must know and take up office that the life of the others is not controlled by me, who must not affect me, which is very poor to feel good before the foreign defeat, which my happiness does not spend for the unhappiness of the others, that the life is not a challenge, which it is necessary neither to gain nor to lose.
I must learn that the life is a step that I must savor with the others and to enjoy it especially with ”me”. Know, that if I do not learn these personal, so basic norms for me, I will be much a poor person like person, I will be always alone and out of place in my world. In the world through that he has me to live with the others …
I will only have what I want to have … although I cost myself.
And. “that onlooker. Look where I looked, only I see the things under my point of view : will this be the just thing?”¿será eso lo justo?”
it is never late to realize the errors of one himself, the best thing is to unpray the words and writing that could hurt you and treat the others as we would like that they treat to one himself a greeting to us, discu my spelling mistake
Congratulations Mess, a well focused, and sincere article. Me edentifico with, not for my deblidad, that I have it, if not for everything what you express. Only I say to you, to be you, feel good with yourself. And I say to you, for me, the humility is a beautiful virtue. And I say to you more, detest these personages that it tries to ridicule the weak. Perhaps of this weak they would have much that to learn. Solo te digo, ser tu, sientete bien contigo misma. Y te digo, para mi, la humildad es una bella virtud. Y te digo mas, detesto a esos personajes que intenta ridiculizar al debil. Quizás de ese debil tendrían mucho que aprender.
You know mess, from my point of view I believe that we do not have another thing any more than eso:nuestro point of view. How long do we lie we do it based on the proper experience, therefore even the lies speak about who we are and as percivimos the reality and for much that we could imagine how it will be the point of view of another person, we never manage to completely be sure that it is like we think. Another thing is the empathy, which is the aptitude to tune in and to understand to others and the opposite, the aptitude to open the doors from our "me" to the others. It is slightly difficult to obtain this way there and return, at least for me and topcoat inside a group in which almost I become invisible. This is not your case Mess, I consist. You tune in well with tod@s and tod@s they tune in well to you. From my point of view I consider that this skill almost like a superpower … you should not worry SuperMess, you will never be alone.Otra cosa es la empatía,que es la capacidad para conectar y comprender a otros y lo contrario,la capacidad de abrir las puertas de nuestro “yo” a los demas.Es algo dificil de conseguir ese camino de ida y vuelta,al menos para mi y sobretodo dentro de un grupo en el cual casi me vuelvo invisible.Ese no es tu caso Mess,me consta.Conectas bien con tod@s y tod@s conectan bien contigo.Desde mi punto de vista considero esta habilidad casi como un superpoder…no te preocupes SuperMess,tu nunca estarás sola.
Kisses girl.
Epsi …. are a strong adversary undoubtedly, A thing is a weakness and another sensibility.
Diavola, I believe that if only we move in ours point of view. we get lost an open field and succulent.Y ….para nothing is invisible girl assured it to you.
Besitosss … although in this writing, recogo what in general we could be great.
Adversaries of whom? Sometimes we are opposing of ourselves, and that is not good, we have to love a bit more. Jajajajaa, but knowing each other, for your writings, that one, I imagine, it will be a positive adversity, I am sure. Jajajajaa, pero conociendote, por tus escritos, esa, imagino, será una adversidad positiva, estoy seguro.
In the life is it always possible to give, and does it happen, moments of weakness, because? because we are human. But there is the sensiblidad of those who surround us not to take advantage of this weakness. Pero ahí está la sensiblidad de los que nos rodean para no aprovecharse de esa debilidad.
The free criticism, the infamy, the calumny, and up to the rumorologia as science not recognized by the scholars, who if, for the flat people, it has never been a part of learning of the human being, but a question of attitude or predisposition of the individual, is born this way or is not born, but it is never learned and therefore very difficultly to correct for not saying impossibly.
This way, while we live in this alone vale we can only assume the criticism, the self-criticism and be conscious of our facility for the foreign criticism, and from the knowledge of all this, try and I say only to try, to live worthily with ourselves.
You see I also am a corrupt one of the foreign morality, I am doing a value judgment on your reflection of seeing the life and your intentions towards her: Could I have avoided it?: Have I wanted to do it?, the truth is that not, what if it is true, it is that I have done it.,la verdad es que no lo se, lo que si es cierto, es que lo he hecho.
a besito mess.
Confun … nothing worry my calmness, nothing invades my rhythm. I am simply a protagonist or spectator as I adopted the role. of my life … besitosssss
You have so many reason, we always look at the others and criticize the others, but we never think if what we do is correct, (I include myself from yá), we live looking at other being that we have so much that to learn!!! fondness from ARGENTINA cariños desde ARGENTINA
messsss anybody save any more of her not if he wants of those of more if so many lives you never saw you would never know how heres since a hacertigo saver of q way you are or rehaccionas are never like the biento the water q saves where it goes out and for mullet q want to know each other that you will not be able only you will learn of your herrores and of the herrores of those of maspero you are born without saver as you are and die igualpor qla this life begin of ostias and love and of trips q of those if q oh and as they hurt haveceste I want ñiña and look after q the life only bring questions but few ones animal puestasteteroooooooooooooooooo
if it does not please q I set I would like q medieran answer since I like to read and to answer but if not osgusta it q I put to say q change change mequedo I beo the life as the cheese of bujeritos q you enter on the one hand and go out for other and in top with the empty intestines jajjaja for qeso is a saying the shift ready one comes and melo it removes jajajjj
Panter.niña? … do I like your comments why, do you express what simply you should sit. personally to me? if, I like. si,, me gustan.
But what I wrote, the sensation that I wanted to give, some time ago that I learned it, that's why I live in a calm way and without reproaches. besitosss panterrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Today I am not especially analytical
and almost not receptive.
Only I see persons k express its feelings
some of them learned and forgotten
others draw into the deepest of the being.
He excuses if I do not give any more than I have
He excuses if not kiero more than k you would want
He excuses for not being able to correspond
since you were deserving,
Only please he excuses,
(Unknown author)
orthographic reviser already!!!
I do not apologize for "being able" to help …
I do not try myself a pity … when I do not strain in becoming happy
I do not invade your freedom if I do not defend mine.
I do not deserve the rebib of the others if I do not respect myself myself.
I do not want your happiness, if mine I do not embrace
I do not need your sincerity if I do not learn to meet to my innermost thoughts sincerely.
Of what do I make use? if I me am not sincere and do not do my reflections to myself. and recognize myself and accept as am???
As what do you serve to me? … if you do not accept what I am.
…. Mess.
The truth, which looked at the important things that the life offers us ….bueno, (that we try ourselves in the life).
I wonder.: if we look after so much to become happy or on the other hand, do we imply ourselves to the misfortune of being unlucky persons?
The happy being, does not consist of seeing the one who makes it more complicated.
I have learned along my experiences, (experiences that we all have to our backs) that in the simplicity, the personal well-being finds … for me, precise tool to make myself comfortable in my everyday life, in the suit that has to protect me from the gap, … dark and cold gap.
PD … with simply easy that is ”to be well“.